Big Idea vs Small Idea

by Aug 31, 2009Uncategorized22 comments

Call it the curse of Chinese Metaphysics. Just as students of Feng Shui are obsessed with ‘The Formula’, so students of BaZi are obsessed with ‘The Technique’. In my recent M2 class, any mention of an advanced approach or technique often makes the students wonder if the reason why they aren’t getting the answers they want to get from the BaZi chart is because they don’t know something.

Are there some special combinations that we don’t know about? Is there some special structure that we haven’t learnt about that therefore impedes our ability to access the hidden secrets of a particular chart.

Personally, I think students think far too much about the building blocks (the Combos, the Harms, the Destructions etc) than they do about the house. There’s to much fixation on technique, and not enough focus on concept.

So what is ‘concept’ in BaZi? It’s in the word of Robin Sharma, a ‘big idea’.

Concept involves thinking about what the purpose of BaZi is supposed to be. It involves thinking about BaZi in the broader context of life, happiness, greatness, achievement, progress and advancement. Concept involves if you like, deriving some form of principle or philosophy or approach about how to do a certain something.It’s a hypothesis. A theory about how to do a certain something, or handle a certain situation.

For example, an important CONCEPT in BaZi is that of connection. BaZi affords us an opportunity to understand how we connect with the people around us. Why person x at this point in time? Why person y 10 years ago, but not now? Why this particular Day Master only. Why in a given year, a certain type of Day Master seems to constantly emerge to offer you assistance, or guidance?

Another important concept that I’ve arrived at in the course of my consulting practice is (I hesitate to say that I originated the thought since original thought isn’t that easy) relates to careers. BaZi cannot tell us if a person should be a doctor, or a scientist or a social worker. People often expect me to be able to pull a profession out of the hat for them. BaZi cannot do that. But BaZi can tell us if a person has the skills and abilities to be a doctor, scientist or social worker and how well they will do in those roles, based on their skills.

The BIG IDEA that BaZi is putting across here is the concept of trying to understand yourself from a SKILLS perspective first, and not a JOB perspective. Figure out what you are good at doing (based on your chart) and then find a job that fits those strengths, which could be any number of possibilities. Or better yet. Find out what you are good at doing, and then invent a profession or job that fits those strengths and abilities.

For many Asians, this is a completely unorthodox, even absurd, way of finding a career. In the old days, you took up a profession or vocation, and then you got good at doing it. The old 10,000 hours that Malcolm Gladwell talks about in ‘Outliers’. And then you just practiced and practiced. And you would eventually acquire a vocation or a skill.

Guess what? Anybody can get good at doing something by just doing it all the time. As with anything in this life, with enough practice, you will get somewhere. Perseverance is 99% of genius after all. But that being said, you’re never gonna be as good at it as someone who not only works hard, but has their BaZi pushing them all the way. And guess what? You might certainly not be happy doing your job, which you’re only good at because you’ve been doing it for so long it’s impossible to be bad at doing it.

What is the path to career excellence? Dedication AND Passion. You’ve got to like doing it, and be good at doing it. And whilst you can get good at a job or skill without liking it, you’d be so much better if you also liked your job at the same time.

The big idea that BaZi promotes is not to look for a JOB. It is to look for a CALLING. A calling that suits your skills, plays to your strengths and doesn’t press your weaknesses too much. Better yet, invent a calling that you can OWN. If Mark McCormack didn’t do that, we wouldn’t have a company called IMG today. And sports stars wouldn’t be flogging watches, and perfume, and cologne and shaving blades, whilst earning a fortune doing so.

Here’s another concept. One of the advanced ideas that you learn (in m3 of the MA syllabus at least) is that all the elements in a BaZi chart have an inter-dependent relationship. So for example, if you have Ding Fire in your chart, then you must have Jia Wood to help that Ding Fire candle keep burning. But you also need a Xin Metal or Geng Metal to chop the Jia Wood to provide the kindling for the Ding Fire. And it goes on.

The inter-dependent nature of all the elements in a chart is played out against the backdrop of the fact that every chart has a magic key element. This is the Useful God or the Regulating Useful God element. It is the element that unlocks the power and potential of the chart. But, the Useful God or Regulating Useful God element has to be a good quality element and have all the elements that the particular Useful God or Regulating Useful God element is inter-dependent upon.

So what’s the big idea?

Christmas lights.

Turn on one switch, and you light up the whole row.

What BaZi tells us is that there is one key integral action or personal quality that each person NEEDS to possess (or acquire) or regularly make use of, that represents the element that their Useful God or Regulating Useful God is MOST inter-dependent upon. The more you use that quality or do that action, the more you hone, encourage, feed, nurture, grow, forge, shine, water, or focus your Useful God or Regulating Useful God element.

Flip the switch. And watch your ducks line up in a row.

This sounds confusing so here’s an example.

Let’s assume that the Day Master is Jia Wood. Jia Wood as a rule, must be made useful. It must be chopped. And so for all Jia Woods, the presence of Geng Metal in the chart is integral. Now, Geng Metal, as an element, requires Ding Fire (or in the absence of that, Bing) to bring out its true qualities and the Sha that it carries inherent within it. So, the Jia Wood now needs both Ding and Geng. Assuming the chart has both these elements, how then does the person ‘flip the switch’?

Ding is the key here, which represents a Jia Wood person’s Hurting Officer star.

The more Hurting Officer in temperament the person is, meaning, the more opinionated, forceful, outgoing, unorthodox, bold and daring the person is, the more they are doing what is needed to unlock the power of the Geng Metal in their chart, namely, forging the Metal. As the Geng Metal in their chart represents their Seven Killings star, this means that the bolder, more daing, more forceful, more outgoing, more bold thinking the person is, the greater their  influence and power, their ability to be decisive is enhanced, their capacity to make big decisions grows, and their ambition, drive and desire to win big, as well as belief in their own invincibility, will become more pronounced. And they will in turn be able to make the decisions, take the jobs, or make the choices that are needed for them to become a ‘useful’ Jia Wood.

So,don’t fixate on the small ideas, the secret techniques, and the combos you don’t know about.

Think Big.

22 Comments

  1. Wu-shful Thinker

    Interesting, really. BUT – assuming you are, say, a Jia. And your puny little chart has no Geng (the almighty 7k) and Ding (Hurting Officer.)

    Honestly speaking, does this mean you just need to resign yourself to fate and destiny (ha) or go out and find or ‘use’ those elements? I think for beginners the concept of ‘using’ elements that you need, but don’t have in your chart, is really confusing. How does it work? Or is there no such thing? You can only use what you have, right?

    Are you sort of softly doomed if you don’t have those requisite elements, as in your example for Jia, or is there a way around it?

    I hope I’m making myself clear. In BaZi, can you ‘use’ what you don’t have?

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  2. Terrence

    I like the last big paragraph, it comforts me to hear that after all Hurting Officer wasn’t too bad afterall (other than being stubborn, strong-headed)!

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  3. FY

    Oh I get what you mean. Thanks ! 🙂

    Reply
  4. Jonas

    Thank you for your informational article.
    What i would like to know is…say if the Person’s Self Element is Yang Fire born in the month of Summer (Horse Yang Fire), and surrounded by 2 other Yang fires (Year and Day as well), with a Yin Fire on the hour pillar,
    Does this mean the hurting officer is helping this person since Yang Fire has two hidden Rob Wealth and Hurting officer?

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    • baziqueen

      Jonas – you’re way off tangent on your interpretation.

      Reply
  5. rayne

    Hi, what if a Jia Day Master person are sitting on geng and have geng on Jia’s left and right. It has excessive seven killings right? What does it effects this person?? any sifus can help?

    Reply
    • Peachy

      Feel abused?

      Reply
  6. NBA

    Ok. Does the luck pillar Heavenly stem have to be activated as so? Ie… Xin dm in ding hai LP. Is it important if the ding has Jia somewhere in our chart?
    Or if it’s even sitting on hai where jia is found.. Is it a plus?
    I’m just asking if the heavenly stems in LP need to have it’s regulating useful elements in our chart? Or are they just there to act as a regulating useful god to The chart?

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  7. aba

    “The more you use that quality or do that action, the more you hone, encourage, feed, nurture, grow, forge, shine, water, or focus your Useful God or Regulating Useful God element.”

    is this absolutely futile, if 1, your chart doesn’t have any of these elements to begin with, and 2, if the season you’re born in doesn’t support any of the regulating useful gods? IE: Water is trap in Summer, but having water as 1 of my regulating useful god, would my change in behavior be effective in the season that doesn’t support this element?

    Please disregard my last question from NBA.

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  8. Kitty

    Dear Baziqueen, loved your article.
    So the outmost quality that everybody needs us being
    self-objective. One question-
    what if Day master is the only
    self-element in the chart? useful god
    would be resources? I understood very well the pictorial relationships between all other elements in terms of what is needed:chopped,burnt,etc.
    however still cant get how METAL
    produces WATER . Just cant grasp it in a more esoteric abstract way. Please could you provide an insight on how Metal “makes” Water. because it is easier to get that image with the rest of elements. Some examples would be great.

    Reply
    • Baziqueen

      Metal does not make so much as *attract* water via condensation.

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    • athena

      I suppose you can think of metal as the minerals that enrich the water

      Reply
  9. marty

    great, so if I don’t have Eating God and Hurting Officer in my chart, I should just give up right now, cause I’ll never reach my potential.

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    • admin

      Use other stars that you can use but yes, there are some limitations unless you go through a good LP.

      Reply
  10. PJQ

    Dear BaziQueen, thank you for this article. It is amazing this article was posted 4yrs ago and I’m lucky enough to chance upon it. I’m a beginner in Bazi and I couldn’t find the basic understanding of the production and destruction cycles applied to a Bazi chart. Finally this article gives me a basic picture. I read it a number of times to be sure of my understanding. Correct me if I am wrong.

    I see your concept as ‘Chi’ flow in a Christmas lighting ciruit loop. Turn the Skills (Switch) on and the Useful God (Battery) supplies the electricity flow.

    1) I have 4 elements instead of 3. DM:Xin, Ren, Jia and hidden Bing/Ding. Can I say Fire is my 7Killing Useful God in this loop? Which is my switch, Ren or Jia? Must I use 2 switches?

    2) What should be done to unfavourable elements that disrupt the flow of the Christmas lights?

    Thank you indeed for this article.

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    • admin

      Firstly, I think perhaps your understanding of how the concept works is a tad bit elementary. It is slightly different from Useful God as Battery, Skills as Switch. This applies more to people who have difficulty using their Useful God, and you sometimes have to turn the approach around (empower a particular skill that empowers the Useful God) rather than going straight for the Useful God. In most instances, one would simply recommend going for the Useful God rather than going the round circuit way of utilising a Star that empowers the Useful God. I don’t understand how you have 4 elements instead of 3 and again, I cannot determine with any technical accuracy the answers to your questions as to the right ‘switch’ since I have no idea what your chart is, or even your day master. As for your (2) question regarding the unfavourable elements, i think it’s too much to try to do too many things at once. Just focus on using the Useful God and minimising your use of the unfavourable elements. Disruption is just distraction.

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  11. Requise

    Hi BaziQueen
    I noticed your write up is about how Jia can succeed in life using Ding and Geng. It is a good write up.

    However, what say you about a Geng with zero Jia (or wealth elements for that matter). How does the Geng make use of Ding to attract Jia since it is non existent in the chart? And you also mentioned somewhere that totally missing elements are negative anyway.

    Since Ding is the DO to a Geng, if a Geng behaves in a very law abiding manner, how does he access to money, aka Jia?

    Thank you

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    • admin

      This is called MISSING ELEMENT. Means DO star doesn’t have support, due to interconnectiveness between the Ding and Jia as a whole. Geng with no Jia potentially the person feels aimless, as if they have nothing to root them down and in a way, the existence of Geng is defined by the existence of Jia (what does the axe do but chop the tree?)

      I am writing a eBook on missing elements. soon…soon…

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      • Requise

        Wow thank you.
        Do write the book!

        So how to mitigate the aimlessness of this person? Can they have Jia friends to ground them, or stay near trees, wear green, etc?

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  12. Bhavesh

    Very well explained BaZi Queen.

    I am a Ding fire DM, with Xin metal on hour pillar, Geng Metal on month pillar and Xin metal on year pillar. DM is out of season. What to do? Please suggest. Jig wood’s absence in chart is not supportive to DM as per your theory

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    • admin

      absolutely no wood?

      Reply
  13. Bhavesh

    Sorry for typing error. I meant Jia Wood

    Reply

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